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Thursday, July 21, 2011

Reaching the big 30

Today is July 21, 2011. In another one month and 4 days, I become 30 yrs old. Looking back, I have a twinge of regret for not having been more open, and ready to enjoy. Having always been conscious of norms, what people will say, etc, I feel I lost out on some good times with my husband. Before our marriage, he was carefree, wanting to enjoy different things and enjoying parties etc. I was at home, studying, and the few times I met him, I was always worried as to who would see me, and find out etc etc. The only Infy party I went to, i was accompanied by my mother,and couldn't enjoy, due to fear of her scoldings and admonitions later on. Now after marriage, he has become very responsible, has a lot of things on his plate work wise, and the vacations we take, are like old people vacations. Go to some place, stay in hotel, walk around, and relax. What about doing something different, like hiking? like kayaking? like walking down the Grand canyon to the Phantom ranch? 

I so want to go dancing with him, but now he won't. I want to go bowling, but we haven't gone even once to a bowling center. Agar abhi aisi haalat hai, to bacche hone ke baad to kuch bhi nahi hoga. bas budhe logon ki rtarah, apne aap mein hi khush rehna hoga. 



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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Las Vegas trip- June 21-24, 2011

Las Vegas, or "the Meadows", is an international tourist destination, and quite popular domestically too. All of the activity, the buzz and hype, is about a 2 mile stretch of the road, called Las Vegas Boulevard. These 2 miles, aka, "the strip", are filled with luxurious hotels, famed for their architecture and lobby designs. There are the old world architecture ones, like Ceasar's Palace,the Bellagio, The Luxor, The Excalibur, and the Venetian. The modern, sleek style is defined by hotels like, The Hilton, Planet Hollywood,New York New York, etc. The Ceasars Palace hotel is one of the most outstanding hotels, with its towering columns, driveway, facade, their statues, the Colosseum(where Celine Dion shows are held). Another hotel i liked was the MGM Grand(of the movie production house-MGM). Since their logo is the Lion, there are huge bas-relief sculptures of lion faces all around the hotel. The Luxor looks like a huge black pyramid from the outside. Its interior designs are equally grand, totally Greco-Egyptian. At night, if one looks up at the sky,and can distinguish two beams of light travelling upwards, you know you are near the Luxor. The beams are projected from huge spotlights on the roof of the hotel, into the night sky.Another grandiose way of attracting the public's attention. One common feature of all the hotels is that, theri casinos, playing stations, are located just off the lobby area, front desk registration. The upper floors have rooms, and then some have roof top restaurants. 

Our experiences: 
This time, the trip was for Uncle's 60th birthday. In his last two trips to US, we had not been able to take him to Vegas. So this was it. Our stay was at the Hilton(thanks to Hotwire.com-- which advertises 4 star hotels at 2 star prices). Really nice hotel,comfortable room and beds. The room we were given on the 7th floor, did not have a coffee maker, or mini fridge. In the Hilton resort we stayed at in Tucson, they had a mini fridge, but it was kept under lock and key. Seems like the Hilton family wants you to spend your money in the restaurants inside its hotels.Any room upgrades will be 20 dollars more, we were told. The Hilton however, has this new Go Green initiative. If you do not ask for housekeeping services, they give you a 410 voucher. This voucher is not given on the nights of your arrival and departure, and is valid at food and beverage places inside the Hilton Hotel. 

Spending Wisely--The good thing we did this time was buy the Entertainment book 2011 for Las Vegas, before we left. It promised a whole lot of coupons and discounts, 2-for-1 entrees in restaurants etc. I had seen the ads for this book, and after a quick perusal on its website www.entertainment.com, we bought the book. Turned out to be one of the wisest things we did. Value for money was proved on our very first night dining out.

Vegas has a lot of restaurants offering Indian cuisine. we tried 3 of them. Tamba Indian cuisine, Gandhi Indian cuisine,and Mint Indian cuisine. 

Dining experiences: Tamba is on the strip, near planet Hollywood. Its a very busy restaurant mainly due to its location. They offer buffet and a la carte choices for lunch and dinners. Waiting time is easily 15-20 minutes, if not more. There were at least 10 people standing when we arrived. After the hostess took our name down and told us to wait for our name to be called, we realized that two tour groups were eating there, hence the delay. This on a week day night. So if you are planning to eat there, arrive early on or be prepared to wait. Thankfully, they have a couple of seating areas where you can sit and wait. Food was really good and tasty.A word of caution for those with visual disabilities. The restaurant is pretty dark, recessed low wattage lights make it difficult. First you get your eyes adjusted to the darkness and find your seat, then you get up to go to the buffet table where everything is brightly lit, and then find your way back in near darkness to your own table.  This transition was difficult for me to some extent, perhaps it may be for others too. 

Gandhi Indian Cuisine- Our next stop for Indian cuisine was Gandhi. The restaurant was featurd on the Las Vegas book kept in our room, so we decided to try it out. The second you enter the door, the magnificent idol of Lord Ganesha greets you near the front desk. Totally amazing,and recessed lighting made it look ethereal. An electric lamp was lit next to it and a small Hundi kept-(a few devotees and customers had dropped some change into it). the restaurant was touted to feature north and south Indian fare, vegetariand and non vegetarian. However, the menu threw us a surprise. The Madras Thali and the South Indian thali both featured Dal Makhni as an item. The manager  explained to us taht he had just kept names of various places in India, so taht new customers know what is where, and are comfortable a new order because it features some well known items. He was also very frank and said everything is made in punjabi style of cooking. Again, we were totally satisfied and happy with the taste of the food. Vegetable Biryani, bhindi masala and raita were items I tasted,and found them to be totally delicious. the pickle tehy served was delicious, home made style. Their decor is pretty old town Punjab style. Unlike the Tamba, their buffet was laid out on a granite encased table. The manager was friendly and attentive, though the staff seemed a little lost. Took them some time to  notice us waiting by the front desk and lead us to our table. 

Our last stop on the Indian food circuit was Mint restaurant. Here, my husband was able to get dosas and onion uthapam, with two chutneys and sambar. much to his delight. The restaurant featuired an impressive Buddha idol, whereas maitre d' was Smeet, a Gujrati. When I enquired about the Buddha statue, he said that the restaurant was originally started by Nepalese, and all the cooks in the kitchen are of Nepali origin. The restaurant however changed owners and is now owned by his relative. So Gujju owners, Nepali cooks, and we get to eat South Indian food. What could be more cosmopolitan than this!!! I liked this restaurant's ambiance and lighting the best. Decently well lit, (unlike Tamba) where one could actually see the food we were eating, comfortable seating, and a touch of humor in the menu descriptions.( A bad headache and dehydration made me ill, so I did not eat anything. Hence I cannot give my opinion of the taste of the food) However, here the service was prompt, friendly, staff were attentive. I recommend a try at this restaurant. 

Our friends who went to Vegas earlier and tasted Indian food, told us to stay away from India Palace. We did so. 

Hotel Buffet:-If you are adventurous and want to try new dishes, then I would highly recommend going for buffets of all hotels. Hotels on the strip and outside offer breakfast, lunch and dinner buffets , starting from  as low as 7.99 per person, to going up to 14.99 for breakfast. Prices vary, but not much, across each meal, and according to hotels and variety offered. However, it makes for good value for money too. Each breakfast entree at IHOP costs 7.49 and up,each a la carte dish at Indian restaurants is easily 9 or 10 dollars, whereas for 7.99 you can get to eat a whole breakfast buffet at a hotel. More variety for the price. This was one good lesson we learnt this time. 
We ate lunch buffet at the Bellagio. $19.95 a person (without gratuity), immense variety for non vegetarian dishes, meats, pastas, pizzas, soups, appetizers, etc. The dessert aisle was also pretty good. My fav dessert here- caramel flan, the best,  lightest, jiggly wiggly flan I have ever eaten. The chocolate Sacher cake was sumptuous. 
In retrospect however, I feel the Carnival World buffet at The Rio had more variety for vegetarian dishes. 


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education and experience

As of June 2011, I have become an "odd jobs" lady around my community. i recently accepted a neighbor's offer to water their plants for them while they are away on vacation. From dog walking, pet sitting, to plant watering, and picking up mail for those away from home, I have done them all. Did I envision this while spending two yres doing MA,and then another 2 yrs in pre Phd? Were all those years of formal education really worth it/ The people whose plants I am taking care of, have left me a note describing how much water to put for indoor and outdoor plants, measurements given in a "cup" and "pitcher" level. The difference{-- is the word "pitcher" is spelled as "pitchure". 



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Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Tucson Trip Feb 4-6, 2011.

Friday Feb 4th: Left phx around 11:00 a.m.. Tucson is a 2.5 hr trip from phx, on the highway.

Rooster Cogburn Ostrich Farm-- Also has donkeys, goats, deer, and
lorikeets. You get feed for all animals for 5 dollars per person,
refills for 2 or 3 dollars. You also get lorikeet nectar in small
cups. Beware of going too near the ostrich. They pecked at my handbag,
while i was posing for photos. Then pecked my left fore finger, while
i was feeding other ostrich with my right hand. This made me drop the
cup with all the feed, and I spent much of my later time picking up
feed from the ground n putting it back into feeder tray. Also saw a
couple of ostriches have a food fight, where one raised his wings
angrily, and hissed the other one off.

Deer were amazing...the gentlest animals to take feed from your hand
directly, as were the donkeys. However, one or two donkeys got too
rambunctious and started whining, and braying, signaling me to come
their side and put feed into their trays. I obliged.I had not expected
the goats and donkeys to have such soft tongues. They licked my hand
as they took the food. That’s how I know. Goats were straining their
chains, trying to get through the  little windows, so to speak. They
bleated, snorted,and one or two strained and managed to get their
hooves out, aiming for your feed cup, to grab it right out of your
hand. One funny thing in the ostrich area. Madhu was behind a wooden
fence, near the goat area, and one ostrich walked by. So he stopped
and turned to the ostrich. Madhu put food in his hand, and reached
out. The ostrich couldn't figure out how to get to the food. In the
previous chain link fence area, they reached their necks over and
down, to take food out of his hands. Now faced with the same height
wooden fence, this ostrich had no idea what to do. So Madhu moved to
his right a little bit, where the chain fence was. Then the ostrich
came and ate. Isn't that funny???The ostrich farm also offers Monster
Truck Tours on Saturdays and Sundays. This takes you more into the
farm. What we saw was just the feeding area.Souvenirs are available up
front, near parking area.

Sonoran Glass Art Academy Flame Off--- Annual glass sculpture
competition. Artists who work with glass, came to compete in this
competition. The pieces they make are up for silent auction, and
winner gets to take home the glass art he or she won. The SGAA gets
the money. Its their way of raising funds to keep the Academy going,
since federal and state funding is being increasingly cut for such
arts. Artists basically donate their time, skills, and materials(
glass). We watched the two hour solo competition. The MC introduced
all competitors, asked them what they were making,and periodically
announced their progress. The glass which all competitors were using
was called Boro Silicate. Many of us would remember Borosil cookware
that was introduced in India in the 1990's. This is the same glass.
Viewers were cordoned off behind yellow tape lines, but bleachers were
available to sit and watch. A couple of fast food vans, beer and
coffee booths were available in case you got hungry. The fire is
intense, so viewers were also warned not to stare at any one flame for
more than a few seconds, with the naked eye. The competitors had their
own little stations, with gas burners. The gas they use is a mixture
of propane and oxygen. Behind each table they had huge kilns, with
temperatures at 1400 degrees F. The artists put in their pieces, as
they were done, in order for the glass to solidify. These pieces would
then bake for a whole day, and be up for sale on Sunday.

There was a half an hour break after the solo competition. Everyone
was asked to vacate the building, so that they could prepare the area
for the duo competition. Once out in the freezing cold, we were able
to enjoy a fire- dance show, performed by a local troupe called
Elemental Artistry. A group of girls,and one boy were there to perform
at the Flame Off. Basically blew us away. Girls danced with long
sticks with fire on both ends, hula hoops, and  fan like flaming
apparatus. The boy did his bit with two long flaming ropes. One of the
girls swirled a long stick around her neck and shoulders, without
holding it. Their dexterity and skill is to be applauded. Also is the
fact that in India, we may have seen such street performances, or
circus acts. They do it for their livelihood. Here the impression was
more of a fun thing, for art as a passion, than as a means of
survival.

Dining: Friday we arrived quite late in the afternoon. Our first meal
in Tucson was at a Chinese restaurant. Reputed to be listed among the
Top 100 restaurants in USA. Fare is excellent, prices are quite
reasonable.We had the following dishes: veg fried rice, with Schezuan
tofu, and pepper chicken. Their hot and sour soup was just what we
needed after a long drive from Phoenix. I highly recommend this
restaurant for people coming to Tucson for first time. If you are
really hungry, you will finish your plate clean, like we did. :)

Saturday, light breakfast in hotel itself as we were getting ready.
Muffins, bananas.

Kartchner Caverns--- A “not to be missed” visit for any tourist to
Tucson. A little bit of a drive into another town called Benson. This
was the highlight of our trip. The experience is exhilarating, awe
inspiring. What Mother nature did underground, with help of water and
limestone, is stupendous. And here we are, pillaging and destroying
all that is on the surface and in oceans. Believe it or not, Arizona
had seas around 300 million years ago. That is how the limestone is
found in a desert landscape like Arizona. The water washed away and
left behind limestone in little hilly areas. These used to be the
base,the sediments. We were told that it would be humid, and a
constant 72*F inside the caverns. Both Madhu and I had a little
hesitation believing it. How is that possible, when Tucson weather
outside is like 35/ 40* F?? Once we entered through the airtight
doors, we knew what they meant. It was humid, warm,and you could
immediately sense it in the air you breathed. They sure knew what they
were talking about.!!! An amazing tour( we took the Rotunda tour),
left us with expressions like 'Ooh's and Aah s, Beautiful". Everyone
should make time for it and go. Just so you know:- No flashlights,
purses, cameras, food or drink allowed. Lockers are provided to keep
your things, if you do end up carrying car keys, or purses. There are
two different tours provided. Rotunda is most popular with first time
visitors.

Saturday lunch was at a little local pizzeria at Benson, called R&R
pizza. We went for their buffet. Thanks to the iPhone, we were able to
find that place, get reviews, everything. Our review--value for money
meal. For 6 dollars per person for buffet, you can eat unlimited
pieces of pizza hot out of the oven every 6 minutes, freshly baked
bread sticks, salads with all choices of dressing, toppings, spaghetti
and sauce, even chicken wings in hot sauce. Being Saturday, we went
for veggie and cheese pizzas, spaghetti, bread sticks and salad. The
cheese pizza was Tooo good. Loved the melt -in -your- mouth cheese
pizza. The concept is a railroad crossing, with walls being painted
with trains, and seating in the type of train compartments. You can
also see the railway track running above your head, all over the
restaurant, with lanterns, R& R signs everywhere. It could be better
maintained but hey, floors were clean and food is good. They also have
a little game arcade.

San Xavier Mission Del Bac. In English:--St Francis Xavier Mission at
the Wa:k village. Its a little village outside Tucson city limits. The
church/ mission was founded by Father Kino, of Mexico. At one point in
history, Tucson, Nogales and some other southern Arizona cities were a
part of Spain. Then they became part of Mexico, then USA.  So most
people speak Spanish, road signs say Kilometers, instead of 'miles'.
Also called the White Dove of the Desert, this church was established
in the 1700's. Went through a massive renovation project in 1995-1997.
This is the same St.Francis Xavier whose church and remains are in
Goa, India. He is the patron saint of Healing. Painting on walls,
ceilings, beautiful art work, baroque. Shopping: Museum attached to
the church is good for souvenirs. The Grotto hill museum is not
attached to the main church, but is fun to look around. Thanks to our
friend Raji,  for suggesting a visit here.


Sunday Feb 6th

Breakfast at top of Mt. Lemmon at Iron door Restaurant. Built when Mt.
Lemmon was just becoming a ski destination, as a warming hut for
skiers. The legend is that the Native Americans hid their gold and
treasures in the depths of the mountains, in a cave. They marked it
with an Iron Door. However, it still remains a legend. The food was
very tasty. Our server was an elderly gentleman who had come to Mt.
Lemmon in the 1970's as a young man, to ski. He came back to Tucson in
1990's, and started work  in the warming hut, now converted into a
restaurant. He had a quaint way of speech, saying things like, " I
will go now to do your bidding." Food may seem a little pricey, but
thats what you pay for eating at the top of a mountain. 9,157 ft above
sea level.!!!

Our journey up took almost an hour of driving. Imagine all employees
living in Tucson, and traveling all the way up to work every day. The
restaurant had a fireplace that immediately warmed us. I was happy to
see my spiced apple cider arrive. A warm glass of apple cider, with a
taste of cinnamon, and lemon slices. Mmmmm!!! I thank our server for
persuading me to try it. Even my french toast had a cinnamon flavor.
Recommendation: Good (and probably only) place to have a hearty meal
after a long drive.

Mt.Lemmon:-- There is no spelling mistake. It is spelled with two "m"s. Named in honor of Sarah Lemmon, who was the first one to climb to the top in 1881. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mount_Lemmon

We were only able to ride on the ski lift. Up to the top
and back.  A short ride up and down. The tickets we bought highlighted
the following: 30 miles up, 30 degrees cooler. It seemed steeper than
Snow Bowl in Flagstaff. Mt. Lemmon is 9,157 ft above sea level. If
going in Feb, as we did, be prepared for wind chill, bundle up with
earmuffs, scarves, gloves, and thick coats. The seats have cushions,
thank God!! Not cold metal.

As they say, you can see a visible difference in the flora and fauna,
as you go up Mt. Lemmon. Iwe didn't see much fauna to speak of, but
flora changes we saw. Cacti give way to coniferous trees, evergreens,
pine trees.

Drive down and then drive home.!!!! Tucson trip was FUN!!!!

HANDY TIP:- Buy the Tucson Savings Passport ( $15.00) at any visitor
center, and plan to visit most of the places listed there, you will
get good deals. Many are 2-for1 ticket prices, some have discounts.
Having a GPS navigator is handy when travelling in Tucson, esp if your
hotel is at one end of the city, like ours was.

What we did not see:

Pima air and space museum.. Saw the one on the way to Grand Canyon, so
didn’t want to see another plane museum. However, this definitely has
bigger planes on exhibit.

Colossal Caves: Mountain Park-- Situated on the way to Kartchner
Caverns. They are called as "dead caves" unlike Kartchner, which are
still alive,  regenerating and changing every year.Both have limestone
formations inside.

Picacho Peak State Park:: Situated near Ostrich farm, people often get
misled to going in to the state park, than the ostrich farm. This is
probably good for campers. I don’t know what else we have there.

Tucson Downtown: House of miniatures, Fourth Ave shopping area, other
museums and botanical gardens in Tucson downtown.

TUCSON requires much more than a 2 night stay to see all the city has to offer tourists.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Diwali 2010

Diwali 2010 was very different. My parents have just left USA on Oct 30th, after staying with us for 4 months. It was a sudden loneliness, that made me cranky for the first day making chapathis for dinner. Second and third day were equally bad. I knew diwali was coming, and I had to make some sweet. However,Ii just could not summon the enthusiasm or the energy  to do it. So on Friday evening before the puja, got sweets from the store. That was offered to God this time. I never expected to feel this loneliness. I was quite happy to know that my parents had a good time, reached India safely etc. I even told my mother that Diwali sweets preparation would begin only after they left. But who knew it would come to gnaw at me for 4 days? 





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Poverty

For the first time in almost four years of living in USA, I saw a man with a tattered T-shirt. We had gone to watch a movie on Diwali evening, 5th Nov 2010. There, i saw this man, wearing a tattered t shirt, with a hole in the back, cleaning dustbins inside the theater. I don't know what he was looking for, but I did see him clean all the rims of the trash cans placed outside all theater entrances. Struck me in a very odd way-seeing that in this land of opportunity that people still flock to, there are people wearing torn clothes in winter. Felt sorry for him,and grateful to God for what I had, at the same time. 



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Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Life is passing me by.

Of late, I am feeling that life is passing me by too fast. i am nearing 30, have so many things I want to do, like catching up on music, dance, learn something new, write about our various trips inside USA. However,I never get around to doing anything.In bad need of time management,and some restful time to think about writing. Life's everyday conundrums keep me busy. You Tube is now my only source of Carnatic music. Watching videos and playlists of other kindred spirits.






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